An Age-Old Question- Stay or Go?
Tuesday, August 17th, 2010I married relatively late in life. And before I found my terrifically reliable husband, let’s just say that I had a somewhat colorful dating life, filled mostly with escapees from the Island of Misfit Toys. One boyfriend in particular was an amazingly bad boyfriend, and though I will save the details for my tell-all memoir, I think it’s fair to say you wouldn’t want your daughter dating him. But, he did have two redeeming qualities
- He drove a really cool motorcycle
- He periodically spouted profound and useful life advice
At one point during our relationship he told me, “If you are in a situation that’s not working for you, you can either change the way you react to the situation or you can leave the situation. But you can’t change the situation.” I’m afraid it came as a great shock to him when I took his advice, realized he was the situation that wasn’t working for me, and then left it. Still, it’s excellent life advice with lots of other applications.
In my clinical practice as an acupuncturist, I listen to a lot of patients complain about various aspects of their western medical treatment. (more…)









